Santosh Sahoo I married Miss Right. I just didn't know her first name was Always.
Natalia Ruiz I dislike the fact that people change a lot nowadays... -.-
Gugulethu T'bos Innocentia I am so happppy sho boys u made me happy again thanks
James Walker I used to feel that life would pass me by, but it didn't - IT RAN ME OVER!
Scott Andrews I am so excited about the year to come! So many efforts finally paying off professionally and personally. Always onward and upward ;)
Staci Aukes- Thompson I am up at church practicing for tomorrow. Kind of sad, it will be the last service I ever play for in this building.
Naomi Benitez FUCK IM OUT IN THE RAIN WISH I HAD A ROOM IM COLD LIKE HELL
Gene Levy When I hear "The Donald" talk about himself, his money, his empire, and his hope to be the host for one of the Republican presidential debates, I am reminded of the quote from Don King: "I never cease to amaze myself; and I say this humbly."
Brock Ondish i remember bumpin to this song too....when this came on in the philly clubs you knew right then that the night was poppin off
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The best versio in kernkraft400 - zombie nation!
Wildside Mahalia I was ACTN LYK AH BITCH FA DAT TAT BT I GT IT!!!:-)
Jodi Van Damme dont feel like getting mad yet so i,ll let them sleep a lil longer
Megan Blackmon if only this would really happen :/
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Alicia Stoney Early b-day party tonight with my HSC buddies! Got a designated driver so I can cut loose a little yeehaw (and to keep me from putting my beer goggles on haha) Love my family, love my friends, love my life!
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Joshua Cox My brother jonathon is the best brother I can have :) he's so awesome! I love you with all my heart ur someone I look up to and want to be like u in the future :))
Chantal Hindman Josh and I got our christmas tree last night, let it sit for today, and now i cant wait to decorate it tonight with my boys. Now its starting to feel like christmas.......
Jodie Williams Jus had a lush Indian now scoffing cool mint matchmakers watching the x factor, #dietgonedownthepan on the plus side no wineage coz I am flued right up!!!
Ashley Smith When I close my eyes I'm somewhere with you......
Dave Evans Looks like the Russians don't want to go back to the old commie ways. they had their taste of it and once was enough, i guess
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50,000 rally against Russian polls, Putin
Richard Mireles I need a new tower for my computer, no more recording music for now, damnit that sucks....
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Ragan Neel People realize that I can like whoever i want and it dosent matter if u like it or not im already not friends with donald so see what happens when this krap starts? I dont want to lose another friend so please lets just get over this
Tuski Jha did a lot of nothing
yesterday, but I didn’t finish,
so I’m going to do it again
today!
Olawale Fasasi N Friends,
Read this, n save your Family, If not urs..
then Others..Please Please Read It…I had
tears in my Eyes …
But Please SHARE…
When I got home that night as my wife
served dinner, I held her hand and said,
I’ve got something to tell you. She sat
down and ate quietly. Again I observed
the hurt in her eyes.
…
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my
mouth. But I had to let her know what I
was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised
the topic calmly.
She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my
words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her
angry. She threw away the chopsticks
and shouted at me, you are not a man!
That night, we didn’t talk to each other.
She was weeping. I knew she wanted to
find out what had happened to our
marriage. But I could hardly give her a
satisfactory answer; she had lost my
heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I
just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a
divorce agreement which stated that she
could own our house, our car, and 30%
stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into
pieces. The woman who had spent ten
years of her life with me had become a
stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time,
resources and energy but I could not take
back what I had said for I loved Jane so
dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of
me, which was what I had expected to
see. To me her cry was actually a kind of
release. The idea of divorce which had
obsessed me for several weeks seemed
to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late
and found her writing something at the
table. I didn’t have supper but went
straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast
because I was tired after an eventful day
with Jane.
When I woke up, she was still there at the
table writing. I just did not care so I
turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce
conditions: she didn’t want anything
from me, but needed a month’s notice
before the divorce. She requested that in
that one month we both struggle to live
as normal a life as possible. Her reasons
were simple: our son had his exams in a
month’s time and she didn’t want to
disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had
something more, she asked me to recall
how I had carried her into out bridal
room on our wedding day.
She requested that every day for the
month’s duration I carry her out of our
bedroom to the front door ever morning.
I thought she was going crazy. Just to
make our last days together bearable I
accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife’s divorce
conditions. . She laughed loudly and
thought it was absurd. No matter what
tricks she applies, she has to face the
divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn’t had any body
contact since my divorce intention was
explicitly expressed. So when I carried her
out on the first day, we both appeared
clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy
is holding mommy in his arms. His words
brought me a sense of pain. From the
bedroom to the sitting room, then to the
door, I walked over ten meters with her
in my arms. She closed her eyes and said
softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce.
I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put
her down outsidethe door. She went to
wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to
the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much
more easily. She leaned on my chest. I
could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I
realized that I hadn’t looked at this
woman carefully for a long time. I realized
she was not young any more. There were
fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was
graying! Our marriage had taken its toll
on her. For a minute I wondered what I
had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I
felt a sense of intimacy returning. This
was the woman who had given ten years
of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that
our sense of intimacy was growing again.
I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became
easier to carry her as the month slipped
by. Perhaps the everyday workout made
me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one
morning. She tried on quite a few dresses
but could not find a suitable one. Then
she sighed, all my dresses have grown
bigger. I suddenly realized that she had
grown so thin, that was the reason why I
could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so
much pain and bitterness in her heart.
Subconsciously I reached out and
touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said,
Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him,
seeing his father carrying his mother out
had become an essential part of his life.
My wife gestured to our son to come
closer and hugged him tightly. I turned
my face away because I was afraid I
might change my mind at this last minute.
I then held her in my arms, walking from
the bedroom, through the sitting room,
to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my
neck softly and naturally. I held her body
tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me
sad. On the last day, when I held her in
my arms I could hardly move a step. Our
son had gone to school. I held her tightly
and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life
lacked intimacy.
I drove to office…. jumped out of the car
swiftly without locking the door. I was
afraid any delay would make me change
my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened
the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I
do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then
touched my forehead. Do you have a
fever? She said. I moved her hand off my
head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce.
My marriage life was boring probably
because she and I didn’t value the details
of our lives, not because we didn’t love
each other anymore. Now I realize that
since I carried her into my home on our
wedding day I am supposed to hold her
until death do us apart.
Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She
gave me a loud slap and then slammed
the door and burst into tears. I walked
downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a
bouquet of flowers for my wife. The
salesgirl asked me what to write on the
card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out
every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in
my hands, a smile on my face, I run up
stairs, only to find my wife in the bed –
dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for
months and I was so busy with Jane to
even notice. She knew that she would die
soon and she wanted to save me from
the whatever negative reaction from our
son, in case we push thru with the
divorce.– At least, in the eyes of our son—
I’m a loving husband….
The small details of your lives are what
really matter in a relationship. It is not the
mansion, the car, property, the money in
the bank. These create an environment
conducive for happiness but cannot give
happiness in themselves. So find time to
be your spouse’s friend and do those little
things for each other that build intimacy.
Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don’t share this, nothing will
happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Many of life’s failures are people who did
not realize how close they were to
success when they gave up
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